Way to kick a girl when she's down!

So the last doc was a bust. I was coded wrong so they thought it was my first pregnancy checkup (it was horrid). She was flippant and dismissive because they "don't deal with those sorts of things". She gave me a sheet of clinics that do IVF in the area, which was not was I was looking for yet and refused to give a second opinion. She gave me a referral within their network to someone who she said works with people up through the first couple of rounds of clomid and may refer us on from there. I called and made an appointment for tomorrow, fully explaining what I needed. The nurse called me this morning and said she was confused and I needed to call her because apparently they don't do anything with that either. At this point I was beside myself.

I called and talked to their head of employee relations. It took me about 20 minutes before she admitted to me that no, they really don't handle any of that. I can deal, I'll go somewhere else, but they took my money, for nothing. Why would that be an option in their system if they don't offer it? Why could none of the people who took my appointments told me? Why couldn't the doctor tell me herself? I still have my appointment on the 2nd with an RE who is a member of a third group. I'm paying cash and expect some trouble, but this is nuts. You don't have to help me be a fragile crazy person, I am very efficient at doing that to myself at this point.

Oh, and I got to give a back massage to one of the THREE pregnant women in my social hospitality group of about 40 members....